Are Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko engaged?

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Are wedding bells ringing forThe Bachelor season 19 runner-up Becca Tilley?

The reality TV star has been in a relationship with "Girls Like Girls" singer and former Disney Channel actress Hayley Kiyoko since 2018, having gone public with their relationship in 2022, and the two of them are now telling Us Weekly about their plans for their wedding.

Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko have the guest list planned for their wedding

Becca Tilley was recently one of the maids of honor in her bestie On Air with Ryan Seacrest co-host Tanya Rad's wedding and she said that the experience had her and Hayley Kiyoko thinking about their own wedding -- but the two of them aren't engaged (yet).

"Anytime we get to go and celebrate love, especially for our close friends, it makes that idea of us doing that sound so much fun."
Becca Tilley

"Since I was one of the maid of honors, I was with Tanya most of the time. So Hayley was kind of on her own, and she said that so many people were coming up to her saying like, 'Oh, you're next or when is it y'all's turn?'" Becca Tilley told Us Weekly after Hayley Kiyoko shared a post of the two of them at the wedding and captioned it with a joke about how people had been telling the pair they would be the next to walk down the aisle throughout the entire event.

She went on to say that the fact that Tanya Rad had curated such a perfect guest list of people who really got along and had a good time partying with each other had the two of them thinking about who would be at their future wedding so they could also have such a good time.

Even though Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko aren't ready to walk down the aisle just yet, the former Bachelor contestant shared that it is something that the two of them have talked about. For now, they're just enjoying where they are in their relationship and don't feel pressured to take the next step on anyone else's timeline.

"What I love about our relationship is we very much do everything at our own pace. So I think if anything, it was such a weekend full of joy and love that it made us go like, 'Oh, I can't wait until that's our weekend,'" Becca Tilley went on to share and said that getting married is "something [they] talk about."

When did Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko start dating?

Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley started dating in 2018 and went public in 2022 after the Bachelor alum made an appearance in her music video for the song "For the Girls." In the video, Hayley Kiyoko plays the role of the very first lesbian Bachelorette and Becca Tilley is shown exiting the limo at the very end after a string of other women come make their first impressions on Hayley.

The cameo in the music video was both a fun reference to the real-life reality TV series that Hayley Kiyoko was referencing for the music video as well as an announcement that the two of them had been in a relationship for the past four years and were ready to share their love with the world.

In her Teen Vogue cover story in June 2022, Hayley Kiyoko said it took "courage" for Becca Tilley to be ready to share this part of their life with the world and said, "She has had to navigate a lot of hardship in her journey, and I've been honored to be by her side through it all. It is not my place to speak for her, but it does feel amazing to get to share the love I have for her with the rest of the world."