Dreaming of finding love on The Bachelorette might seem like stepping into a fairy tale—living in a luxurious mansion and traveling to picturesque destinations.
However, participants of this popular ABC reality dating show are bound by a stringent set of rules that govern their actions from start to finish.
Unlike its sister shows The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise, The Bachelorette has its own unique regulations that enhance both the filming process and the show's enchanting allure. These include technical rules for filming and strict confidentiality clauses that preserve the magic of the show's narrative.
Over the years since its premiere in January 2003, the rules have evolved, but the essence remains. Contestants have shared that complying with these guidelines is part of the challenge.
As the show gears up for its 21st season with Jenn Tran—the first Asian-American bachelorette—hopefuls face strict eligibility criteria just to get on the show.
According to the official casting site, Bachelor Nation, potential contestants must be at least 21 years old and be a legal resident of the United States or Canada, excluding Quebec. More importantly, they must be genuinely single, not just unattached but also not involved in any committed relationships at the time of applying.
Contestants on The Bachelorette must adhere to strict protocols
Entering The Bachelorette means agreeing to be under constant surveillance—cameras roll 24 hours a day, capturing every moment.
The official casting page explicitly states that participants must consent to extensive filming, which includes both audio and video. This footage becomes the property of the producers.
However, the constant filming is not about catching contestants off guard; hidden mics and gotcha moments are not part of the show’s style. Moreover, once chosen, contestants must navigate a minefield of confidentiality. They are prohibited from disclosing any details about their participation, from casting to filming.
This includes a stringent confidentiality agreement that covers everything about the show's production. Another unexpected rule involves pre-show preparations where contestants may undergo physical, medical, and psychological testing as stipulated by the show’s requirements.
Personal sacrifices are also part of the journey. Contestants bring their own wardrobe, suited for various climates and activities, as they are kept in the dark about the destinations until the last moment.
They must comply with a specific dress code to avoid on-camera clashes, such as avoiding certain patterns and colors. For the ladies, while the show’s lead has a stylist at her disposal, the contestants do not, which can be a challenge during unpredictable travel plans.
Additionally, all participants surrender their phones upon arrival to ensure that their focus remains on the potential connections forming inside the mansion. This limited access to the outside world extends to internet use and even music, which is seldom played to avoid copyright issues and maintain focus on interpersonal interactions.
New episodes of The Bachelorette air Monday nights on ABC.